Saturday, March 11, 2017

When Life Is Not Perfect

“When life is even more imperfect than it is the rest of the time”. That’s what the title should read. Because life is rarely ever perfect.  I can say with 95% certainty that whoever you are, your life this past week was not “perfect.” Something went wrong. Something goes wrong. And something will go wrong tomorrow.

The amazing part is not that life goes wrong but that life goes on.  People have accidents which result in crushing changes in life. People who seemed perfectly healthy are diagnosed with incurable illnesses.  Wars erupt and families walking away from their bombed out homes with only a backpack full of possessions.  But life always goes, even after days full of diabolical daily disasters. The car won’t start. The school calls and your daughter is sick.  Your boss is unreasonable and your co-worker is lazy. Small stuff that just accumulates into one big feeling of “when am I going to catch a break?!”  Life  is not perfect. But life goes on.

I read a story about a young man who, in the moments after the Cubs World Series win, dove into the shallow end of a hotel pool and came out a quadriplegic, which injury was followed two days later by a stroke.  The story was written by the mother-in-law of this young man, and she describes the long and difficult recovery; the sacrifices and disruptions that her daughter and son-in-law had in their lives as they try to find a new way of living.  The author ends with a focus on the blessings the family found from friends, co-workers and strangers, and she quotes one of those “old sayings”: “Life does not have to be perfect to be wonderful.”


How is it that this family finds life “wonderful”? I think that we are hard-wired by our Creator with the ability to hear God say “Go to a new place I will show you” when we are living in life’s imperfect moments.  God’s “go” calls us to find hope in the midst of life’s imperfect places. May God to give you enough hope to carry you through your next imperfect day. Keep on going to the place God wants to show you. (Genesis 12:1) Keep looking for signs of wonder in life’s imperfect days until that day when life will be perfect.

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